My dad didn't mess around! She would notice him playing alone in the corner, not interested in playmates, and avoiding eye contact with her. Emotional abuse can be very subtle and even self-righteous. When I talk to my mother now who keeps telling me I need to smack DS hands when he hits, grabs, is generally a normal toddler and tell her I don't believe in spanking, she tells me I'll change my mind when I get mad at DS. Have you ever seen that t. Spanking made him feel smaller and weaker, overpowered by people bigger than him. My father spanked me with a belt, and he always insisted on spanking me naked.
It worked quite well too, which is the main reason why it was only a few times! I wouldn't jump off a bridge to get away from you. One time when my daughter was younger, maybe eight years old, she stole a check out of my purse. They have the ability to empathize but far fewer reference points from which to draw on than an adult. Nothing stops an empty threat faster than having the kid reply to "Do you want a spanking? We have threatened to pull the car over, and have actually done it. So when it comes to learning alternative forms of discipline, first and foremost, parents need to find ways to control their own anger.
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Twitter Updates follow me on Twitter. When I first started teaching each teacher had a paddle propped up in front of the room on the chalkboard tray. He didn't buy my excuse. When I got close enough to our house I could see that my dad was home. We found ourselves spanking less and less as our experience and the number of children increased. Now you ask me why I am telling these stories to you?
Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here In our counseling experience, we find that these people are devoted parents who love God and love their children, but they misunderstand the concept of the rod. He folded it in half and with his left hand he grabbed the back of my pants and pulled them uptight, practically lifting me to my toes. If you don't make empty threats, your kids do listen when you tell them to behave. Claiming they are scared emotionally from the spankings. It most definitely does not hurt the parent more.